Believe me, its embarrassing to have to rub one out after your GF can't take any more.
I believe you!
As to circumcision, we just had a baby several months ago and I voted no cut while my wife was leaning towards cutting, mostly for cultural reasons. I did some research but not to the extent you did Cain. For me, it was simply a matter of whether it was medically necessary. My research showed it wasn't and this was confirmed by the doctor at the hospital. My wife left it up to me and I said no, if it's not necessary I'm not putting him through that. (I've never witnessed a circumcision but my mom told me my brothers and I all cried like hell.)
Does it really matter that he wouldn't remember it?? He won't remember shit from now. Does that mean I can do whatever the fuck I want to him?
I also don't understand doing it "so he looks like me." In fact, I think it's ridiculous. My dad never had me stand in front of the mirror with him and pull out our dicks so he could say, "look son, our dicks look the same!" And I didn't plan on doing that with my son. By the way, my son does look like me which is pretty cool, but he doesn't need to look
much like me.
Cain, I think you should share all the info you've found with your wife. Remember, "only by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned." There's time to convince her.